Prison Daddy was actually the creation of two girls who used to send me videos on SnapChat of them fucking each other and themselves. They referred to me as their “prison daddy,” and I was all in. When I decided to create a persona account and start writing stories of my dating experiences, Prison Daddy was the obvious choice for a name. I loved the original Prison Daddy creations. As I’ve grown as a writer, showing all the different sides of who I am, people have started to become confused. I’ve received so many messages questioning how I can post one thing about fucking multiple women, something else about missing my daughter, then write passionately about cannabis law reform. The answer is simple: I’m human like everyone else. I think, feel, and experience life on many levels. I have different sides and different beliefs that go into creating who I am. Prison Daddy is a side of me, but it isn’t all of me by any means. 

I remember a time back when I was working at Red Robin. I was just coming back from Myrtle Beach where I’d been employed as a male dancer. My manager, a hilarious redhead named Jen, came in to work all excited to tell me about a book written by Tucker Max. She thought my life was exactly like his. While in the SHU, I finally read a book by him and understood why she saw that comparison. Although he and I have experienced women in similar ways, we think and write about it completely differently. He has a “conquest” view of women that helps show society that all women aren’t shy little maidens waiting to be swept off their feet by prince charming. This is a conclusion that I’ve come to on my own, as well, but I tend to see things a little differently when it comes to why women do the things they do with guys like him and me. The reason I can be Prison Daddy is not because I’m so incredibly attractive or have the biggest dick in the world. The reason I’m able to be who I am with women is because I know how to connect. I know how to find those things in common with a woman that makes her feel comfortable when we’re together. There’s no way to make a woman cum if I haven’t made her comfortable. People tend to have this idea that if things don’t work out or last forever, then it wasn’t worth it. I feel that every woman I’ve ever been with has completely been worth it. I take a part of each of them and give a part of my energy back in return. The most unexplainable and beautiful part of human existence is the connection we create with others through energy. Sure, I love talking about the bitches I’ve fucked, the dirty part of the experiences, their beautiful bodies, the way they responded to my touch, and all the other things guys like to talk about, but I also appreciate them as people, as human beings who gave themselves to me in that way. There are so many women I love, maybe not in that one-man-one-woman-forever love, but an incredible version of love all the same. When I sleep with someone, I don’t feel like I won; I feel like we both won. 

The most common critique I receive is that the Prison Daddy name and persona take away from my message. I can’t argue with that. Part of me understands the reason why people feel this way, but a bigger part of me wants to scream, “Why can’t I just be everything that I am?!” I know I say controversial things that aren’t always true for everyone, but every hot take has at least a few people that really feel what I am saying. Not everyone has cheated on their significant other, but I can promise you that more people have than will ever admit it. I may come across as promoting such actions, but I feel like I’m simply accepting of its existence and choosing to show the logic behind it. I think it’s important for people to know that they aren’t alone even if they’re the bad person in the situation. We all experience things differently, but I believe that knowing there are others out there who justify and reason in the same way as us is important. I don’t like that I’ve hurt some incredibly beautiful and talented women in my life by being a total piece of shit, but would it really be better for me to act as if it never happened? I use my page and my writing to search for my Truth with a capital T. I attempt to find a level of honesty within myself that doesn’t have limits. Even if my logic and reasoning are flawed, I want people to feel the honesty of it because we all justify things we do that don’t make sense to anyone else. The Prison Daddy persona is an open book on how a fuckboy thinks. I know I don’t represent everyone, I know some people are of the opinion that the way I think is what’s wrong with society, and honestly? I don’t really give a fuck. I am Prison Daddy, and I’ll write my truth no matter what.

That being said, I do think it’s time for me to separate content a bit. I’m starting a JeremyGroveWrites page that targets a general audience. I’m sure my Prison Daddy side will leak into all my writing because it’s a huge part of who I am, but I think the name “Prison Daddy” keeps people who would otherwise love my writing from even giving it a shot. I want to be known as someone who can write about anything because I know that I can. I want my novel and the direction of my writing career to be seen as mainstream, not put in a “prison” or “erotic” niche. While there’s not much I despise more than giving in to what everyone thinks I should do, I also understand that to make a career out of anything, we have to compromise. Prison Daddy isn’t going anywhere, and to those who love it, I thank you for your continued support. For those who think I’m a total dickhead for my Prison Daddy/fuckboy side but love my introspective writing, fuck you nicely, but also feel free to join me on my other page.